Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Crazy Bitches Hate Jellybeans

PHOTO BY LEIGHANN LORD
While my aging and ailing Honda Civic is in the shop getting some impromptu but very necessary repairs I had to rent a car. At 30 minutes to closing I took what was left on the lot, which happened to be an adorable, red Fiat 500 Sport. With an aversion to calling things by a number instead of a name – that perhaps hails back to Star Trek Voyager’s character, Seven of Nine – I’ve taken to calling my Fiat 500, Jellybean. With a car this tiny, food shopping at Costco is out. However, from a parking perspective, Jellybean is perfect for New York City. But not everybody is a fan. 


While I was stopped at a light someone pulled up next to me, rolled down her window, and screeched, “Get that shit off the road! You’re holding up traffic!” At least I think it was a she. Her face was so contorted with rage I couldn’t swear to a positive gender or species identification. A futile attempt to smile and wave at the creature only provoked it further. She put her car into park – in a lane of traffic – and yelled, “I’m going to throw something at you!”

What do you say to something like that? “Hello, Dear. Weave too tight?” So I shrugged my shoulders and gave her my best “I’m sorry” face. And I was sorry, sorry that I didn’t have any raw meat to throw back at her. I was sorry I didn’t have a stun gun. I didn’t even have so much as a human-to-crazy bitch dictionary app on my iPhone. And naturally, Siri was not available. So the best I could do when confronted with that level of lunacy was to placate it.

It would’ve been useless to point out to this not so beautiful mind that I was doing the New York City street speed limit, which is 30 miles per hour. According to Jellybean’s speedometer, the car can get up to a jaunty 140 miles per but who could afford the ticket? Although, I was prepared to floor it and putter away should the violent vixen have listened to the voices in her head and escalated the confrontation.

It was also not worth mentioning to the jabbering gargoyle that stopping to share her passionate opinion with me slowed down traffic more than Jellybean ever could. That information might have pushed her over the edge, and it is so not cool to get your ass kicked over a rental car. I was happy when the harpy made a left turn at the next corner and we motored off in different directions. Me to spend time with friends, her – I hope – to get therapy. She needs it.

This un-delicate flower was lucky that it was me she chose to have a mini meltdown with. Not in a “let me at her” kind of way, unless of course furious pouting from an opponent is her Kryptonite. What I mean is she was lucky she didn’t run into someone who ate fruit loops like her for breakfast. She was lucky she wasn’t in Florida and pulled that stunt on someone who opted to stand their ground by putting her six feet under it. It happens, you know; everyday. It leads the six o’clock news and it still sells newspapers – albeit fewer of them – everyday.


The luxury of time and distance has allowed me to feel sorry for this fellow human. Her fury was so out of proportion to the imagined provocation that I know she must dealing with issues much bigger than my little Jellybean. You never know what someone might be going through in their life, what burden they labor under, what medication they’ve forgotten to take. I’ll never know for sure, but I’d bet money that this poor person was running late to a court-ordered anger management class. And if she wasn’t, she will be … very soon.

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3 comments:

Anonymous said...

I enjoy your sense of humor in this piece and in general - following you on twitter is always a laughing matter! Stay YOU! ;)

Twan C. Brown said...

This is hilarious, yet sad, Soror. This type of lunacy happens all the time, as you mentioned, and while I know that those of us with whom it happens are disarmed at the time, it's best to simply let crazy go and cool off somewhere. Or simply let nature take its course.

Anonymous said...

You go girl! We got a whole boatload of them out there--half of them are off their meds and the other half are on somebody elses meds.

When I was pastoring a former church in a not-so-urban area of Tennessee, I was listening to a preacher on the radio--he was having difficulty with plain-ol' proper English, and then he tried to put a King James spin on it to boot--during the tirade, he said, "Maybe if you wives were more submissive, your husbands wouldn't beat you..." We ain't safe from them anywhere--not on the highways or the airways.

Keep up the good work and God bless--your Tennessee cousin,
David Lord